5 Reasons To Date A Plus Size Guy Or Girl
Dating is not reserved for the slim people of the world. All people have the right to enjoy a meaningful and fulfilling relationship, and this means every person, regardless of size. In fact, a plus size guy or girl may have more to offer in ways you might never have thought of.
Below are 5 reasons to consider.
Plus size people realize that they are often criticized because of their size, so they take the time and make the effort to develop qualities others may not have. They are often more considerate, very fun-loving, and have the ability to laugh at themselves.
Girls and guys who are above ‘average’ size are never critical of others who fall into the same weight category. They know how it feels, so therefore are much more compassionate people. Plus size dates are a whole lot of fun even if they are outside their comfort zone.
They are much more caring about their appearance. They take the time to look good no matter where they might be going, because they know how critical some people are. This is something many so-called ‘normal’ size people tend to overlook. Just because they fall into the slim or slender range is no excuse to not care about how they look.
Dating a plus size person means that you are going to have a lot of fun if you are willing to overlook their size. Often they are gregarious and outgoing with a terrific sense of humor. They will treat you with respect and expect nothing less from you.
If you are afraid of what your friends may think if you are seen out with a plus size date, consider the fact that he or she may feel the same way about dating you! This is something that works both ways-it’s not reserved for skinny people! Accepting a date from someone smaller than a plus size gal or guy, or vice versa, is a privilege!
Unfortunately, the opinion of society seems to be that skinny people date skinny people, and plus size people date plus size people. Quite a ridiculous way to look at things, but it’s been that way since the beginning of time and will probably continue to be so. Plus size people just can’t seem to get a break!
It takes a strong person to shuck the constraints of society and date anyone they like. This also applies to plus size people. Their friends may look at them askance if they show up on the arm of someone smaller, or even wonder what this ‘average’ sized person wants with a bigger gal or guy.
A personality knows no size. If two people meet and find common ground and genuine interests why should it matter what size they are? Who has the right to say that a plus size person needs to ‘stick with their kind? Deciding to not date someone just because he or she is a few pounds overweight, especially if this person has a killer personality is like cutting off your nose to spite your face!